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Donald L. "Toby" Graham Jr.

February 24, 1940 — December 3, 2023


              Donald L. “Toby” Graham Jr., 83, of Manheim died peacefully on Sunday, December 3, 2023 at Mount Hope Nazarene Retirement Community, Manheim. Born in Manheim, Toby was the son of the late Donald L. Sr. and Anna Conder Graham. He was the loving husband of Nellie Shoemaker Graham and they shared 37 wonderful years of marriage together. An avid hunter and fisherman, Toby also enjoyed golfing, rooting for the Manheim Central Barons, and Pittsburgh Steelers. He was also a volunteer for the Manheim Fire Department.

            Surviving in addition to his wife; Nellie, are five children, Victoria Ferster, of Selinsgrove, Edward husband of Greta Kauffman, of Looneyville, WV, Daniel husband of Carole Kauffman, of Wrightsville, Dwight Kauffman, of Conestoga, and Elizabeth wife of Thomas Patrick, of Blairs Mills, nine grandchildren, twelve great grandchildren, a sister, Linda wife of Jerry Stehman, a step brother, Terry husband of Marion Hamaker, and a step sister, Lynette Hamaker, all of Manheim. Preceding him in death was a son; Donald L. Graham.

            Services will be private and at the convenience of the family. To send the family on-line condolences, please visit,

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